Without Facebook, online dating sites and lest we dare mention applications like Tinder, in the 19th century, single boys and girls had to be a little more inventive with their dating game. And thus, the American ‘escort card’ or ‘invitation card’ was introduced. It wasn’t exactly used in high society but this handy acquaintance card was used by “the less formal male” in approaches to “the less formal female”. Single young gents looking for a ‘casual encounter’ could present the flirtatious card to discreetly ask ladies if they could “accompany them home”. According to a collector of these cards and other quirky historical novelties, Alan Mays, the card was “a common means of introduction, it was never taken too seriously”.
-Messy Nessy Chic
